Suck it up! Buttercup!
Like many other women that share my plight, I go through periods of feeling unloved, unappreciated and down right misunderstood! But in the grand scheme of things…..who really cares! Life goes on and people deal with figurative flying darts designed to break us down everyday. Everyone is so busy ducking and diving themselves, so to speak, who really has time to pick up the pieces after you?  We can either allow it to over take us, or find a way to suck it up and deal with it!  Just saying, I mean, if we trip and fall when no one is around to help us get up, do we just sit there on the ground rolling around? or do we look for ways to get up?
Even if it may cause us some discomfort or pain at the time, when help doesn’t arrive when we think it should, we have to gain the strength to pick ourselves up and move on! It’s not that others don’t care about us!  They are so busy struggling to get up themselves, that they didn’t notice that you needed assistance too, so don’t take it personally, everyone is dealing with something. So I lovingly say, “suck it up! Buttercup!”